The Ile d’Oleron is a small island not far from where I live. I visited it a number of times. There’s a pretty village called Chateau d’Oleron with brightly coloured old fishermen’s and oyster farmers huts which are now mostly artists workshops and stores. On my most recent visit I came across this bridge with dozens of oyster shells hung on it, each one inscribed with a wish. The first thing I thought of was the padlocks fastened to the Pont Neuf in Paris which I saw many years ago.
When I looked closer to see what people were wishing for I realised that these oyster wishes were indeed very like the padlocks.
I remember seeing love wishes in Kyoto too –
In fact, most of the wishes I read were for love or happiness, and many of them weren’t really wishes at all, but, more like the padlocks, simply a public declaration of love….two names and a heart, or a date.
Not all the wishes were for love or happiness though. Some were much more specific –
“One house here”!
Which got me wondering about this whole wishing thing.
What’s it about?
Mostly, these are not requests, in the way that a prayer might be. Although some certainly are. I saw a wish for marriage “soon”, no names, just a wish to be married. I saw a wish that a particular child would remain happy forever. Or two names a a hope that their love would endure. But not all were like that.
Most were statements of love or happiness. Declarations of love or happiness. Maybe in some way these were “performative” wishes. By simply, and clearly, stating something, you bring it into being. A sort of focusing. Making love, or happiness, or wellbeing more than just a wish, but a reality, a totem of some kind.
One was even more expressive by making a drawing the centre point, instead of words.
This one says “The song of love”.
I spent quite a while browsing these shells and what, at first, seemed a bit strange, became all the more charming.
After all, don’t they say “The world’s your oyster”?
So, what would you wish for? What would you declare on a padlock, an oyster, a star, or a tree?
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