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Because I deal with stories every day, I decided to learn more about the place of narrative in human experience, but coming from a medical perspective I couldn’t find much about narrative, even though there are emerging disciplines of “narrative-based medicine” and “narrative-based research”. Instead, I found the best thinking on storytelling lay in the world of the Humanities. In fact, Richard Kearney’s “On Stories” gave me more insights than any other single work.

It was interesting, therefore, to read this perspective, from Scientific American, which describes how researchers are beginning to study the use of narrative in order to gain insights into the workings of the mind. “Why does our brain seem to be wired to enjoy stories? And how do the emotional and cognitive effects of a narrative influence our beliefs and real-world decisions?”

The first problem scientists face, however, is defining a story! What exactly constitutes a story?

Exposition contrasts with narrative by being a simple, straightforward explanation, such as a list of facts or an encyclopedia entry. Another standard approach defines narrative as a series of causally linked events that unfold over time. A third definition hinges on the typical narrative’s subject matter: the interactions of intentional agents—characters with minds—who possess various motivations.

I loved the conclusion they reached –

However narrative is defined, people know it when they feel it. Whether fiction or nonfiction, a narrative engages its audience through psychological realism—recognizable emotions and believable interactions among characters. “Everyone has a natural detector for psychological realism,” says Raymond A. Mar, assistant professor of psychology at York University in Toronto. “We can tell when something rings false.”

In other words……you just know! How often this applies in life! How do you know when you are well? How do you know when your energy levels are good? Guess it’s the same when it comes to recognising a story. It’s a function of human intuition.

Do you become immersed in stories? Completely absorbed by them? Well, it turns out that if you have prior experience which is similar to that of the characters in the stories then you are more likely to become immersed in those stories. This is kind of obvious. It means that you are more likely to become absorbed by a story if you identify with the characters. One step beyond this conclusion is interesting though…..those who become more easily immersed in a wider range of stories have been shown to be those who have the greatest capacity to empathise. Interestingly, this can work the other way too…….you can increase somebody’s ability to empathise by teaching them literature! The ability to empathise is the ability to imagine what’s going on in someone else’s mind – scientists call this “theory of mind”. Theory of mind develops in children around the age of 5 and is a key part of the human ability to live in communities. So, storytelling also has the possibility of improving our skills in living together.

Other scientists have studied stories to see what they reveal about human motivations and goals –

As many as two thirds of the most respected stories in narrative traditions seem to be variations on three narrative patterns, or prototypes, according to Hogan. The two more common prototypes are romantic and heroic scenarios—the former focuses on the trials and travails of love, whereas the latter deals with power struggles. The third prototype, dubbed “sacrificial” by Hogan, focuses on agrarian plenty versus famine as well as on societal redemption. These themes appear over and over again as humans create narrative records of their most basic needs: food, reproduction and social status.

Are these the basic, common themes we find in stories? Do you agree that stories reveal the common human patterns of motivation and desire?

Let me finish this post with the final point made in this interesting article – the power of stories to influence us. This is well understood by advertisers and PR companies, but this point really struck me –

…..labeling information as “fact” increased critical analysis, whereas labeling information as “fiction” had the opposite effect. Studies such as these suggest people accept ideas more readily when their minds are in story mode as opposed to when they are in an analytical mind-set.

Now isn’t that interesting! Stories are more likely to convince people than “facts”!

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Belief

All human beings try to make sense of their lives. We each have different ways of doing that and we use different frameworks of understanding to do that. (Owen Flanagan uses the nice concept of “spaces of meaning“)

With that in mind, take a look at this small bookshelf. I saw this in a little independent bookshop yesterday. It’s the section of the shop labelled “Religion” and “Esoteric”. Those are two interesting words to put next to each other to begin with……

The Religion shelf in the bookshop

Check out the book titles (if you can’t see them clearly click through to the flickr page where I uploaded a copy and click “all sizes” to see a larger copy of the photo). Along the top the shop has a New English Bible, books of psalms, the Q’ran, books on Tibetan Buddhism and Zen……this isn’t an unusual selection these days, even in a village bookshop in the Scottish Highlands.

What do you think about the books on the bottom shelf? There’s a book about the occult in London, a book about Celtic myths, one about Druids, and “Derren Brown’s Mind Tricks”!! That’s the one that struck me! Derren Brown, for those of you who don’t know, is a hypnotist and magician!

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East meets West

david hume and the geisha

This young woman was standing next to the statue of David Hume on the Royal Mile last weekend. She was one of a number of people who perform as “living statues”, standing very still for long periods as people gather, watch, photograph and maybe leave some money. It’s such a strange phenomenon, this kind of performance. What amazes people is their stillness. Isn’t that interesting? In the bustle and hurry and continuous doing of life passers-by are caught by these artists’ stillness, their not-moving. And what effect do they have on the crowds who rush by? Well, either only a passing glance, or they are caught. They stop and they stand and they watch, sucked into a moment of stillness. It’s quite something to see.

But it was the juxtaposition of this performer and the huge solidity of David Hume’s statue which especially caught my attention. Set me off thinking all kinds of things……..the relationship between contemplation and philosophy; between thinking and acting (who’s thinking and who’s acting here?); and, probably because this is the EIGHTH day of the EIGHTH month of the two thousand and EIGHTH year today and at EIGHT minutes past EIGHT tonight, the Beijing Olympics will commence, it got me thinking about the intermingling of East and West, of different traditions, different views, different cultures and how they influence each other.

This is a time of change. The old orders are creaking and shaking. As China engages with the rest of the world and the rest of the world engages with China we’re going to have a lot to learn about each other and, actually, right at this moment, I find it awe-inspiring and mind-boggling. I think many of our presumptions are going to be shaken to the core. (BBC2’s Culture Show special on China is an example)

It’s times like these when great opportunities arise to wake up from un-reflective, passive ways of life, (zombie life), to creative, radical, active ways of life (hero life).

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buddleia
You know this plant? It’s a Buddleia. People who love butterflies plant it in their gardens because of its reputation for attracting butterflies.
Well, I’m sure it’s not the Buddleia hanging off North Bridge that attracts all the visitors to Edinburgh in August every year, but something does (and it’s not the sunshine…….)
royal mile
Although the rain doesn’t stop them enjoying the pleasures of al fresco drinking and dining…….
cafe on the royal mile

Thousands and thousands of people come to Edinburgh in August for “the festival”.

The Royal Mile becomes a vast pitching ground for the hundreds of theatre groups and performers trying to persuade visitors to come and see their show.
fringe posters
fringe contenders
It can all get a bit much, but if you need to escape from the crowds, Edinburgh has it’s emptier spaces to explore.
the crags

I suppose some of the things that repeatedly amaze me about Edinburgh at this time of year are the chances to really see and feel the rich diversity of life, the natural exhuberance of people and the overflowing expressions of creativity and passion. It’s worth having a day wandering around and just soaking it all up. But don’t forget your umbrella!

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Juliette Binoche is one of my favourite actresses so I was delighted to read a short interview with her in “Psychologies” magazine this month. The article referred to her creative range – as an actress, a painter and, now in London, a dancer. Even if you just check out her filmography, it’s clear this is someone who likes to push against her boundaries. In the interview she reveals a number of her key beliefs –

  1. Risk taking. “It’s when you are taking risks that you know what you’re capable of. You discover your strengths, and your self. So that’s why sometimes you have to push yourself a little bit in order to surpass your expectations.”
  2. Non-attachment. “I like to leave habits behind. They scare me. Life isn’t about hanging on to things”
  3. Learning. She’s a great example of what Carol Dweck calls “the growth mindset“. Asked about her parents divorce when she was young and being sent away to school, she responded “I took it as a learning process”
  4. Living in the present. “It’s important to me to make the present as beautiful as I can”
  5. Potential. Asked if creativity can be learned she said “We all have potential. We just need to stop being afraid of exploring something new, something daring. Someone said “We’re more scared of our lights, of our possibilities, than of our darkness” Why are we so scared of new beginnings?
  6. Internal locus of power. Like William Glass she clearly believes in Choice Theory. “We always think the solution is external, not internal. But real change comes from an internal shift”
  7. Importance of human connections. “I cannot work and not feel connected. It would make no sense to me. I need the human connection, the complicity…..”
  8. No regrets. Asked “Do you ever regret your choices?”, she responds “No. This is my life. When you have dark moments, desire does return. Life surprises you all the time. I just wish for the best, open my arms and go for it.”

I recently read an interesting post about life lessons from Bon Jovi…….well, this makes a nice collection of life lessons from Juliette Binoche.

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Stanford university psychologist, Carol Dweck has published a book entitled “Mindset. The New Psychology of Success” (ISBN 978-0-345-47232-8). Guy Kawasaki posted about it, and wrote a commendation which is printed on the front page. And Stanford Magazine did an article about it last year.

She’s identified two “mindsets” in relation to how people approach challenges and effort.

When you enter a mindset, you enter a new world. In one world – the world of fixed traits – success is about proving you’re smart or talented. Validating yourself. In the other – the world of changing qualities – it’s about stretching yourself to learn something new. Developing yourself.

One point she made which struck me as surprising at first was that people with a fixed mindset often have had lots of praise. She makes the point that just telling your child they are clever, or wonderful, or whatever, sets up a belief system in them which can become fixed and she recommends instead praising children for their effort, for what they’ve learned. This is her key point really – that when you have a mindset about loving learning you can grow, but when you have a mindset where you think talents are fixed then you get stuck.

The fixed mindset limits achievement. It fills people’s minds with interfering thoughts, it makes effort disagreeable, and it leads to inferior learning strategies. What’s more, it makes other people into judges instead of allies. Whether we’re talking about Darwin or college students, important achievements require a clear focus, all-out effort, and a bottomless trunk full of strategies. Plus allies in learning. This is what the growth mindset gives people, and that’s why it helps their abilities grow and bear fruit.

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I posted about Randy Pausch twice before – once to post his Last Lecture video and once to tell one of the stories he told.

The inevitable death of Randy Pausch, the science professor who delivered a now-famous “last lecture” to students after being diagnosed with terminal cancer, was being mourned across America yesterday. A statement released on Friday confirmed that Pausch, 47, had passed away at his family home in Chesapeake, Virginia, ten months after his inspiring hour-long talk on “realising your childhood dreams” became a YouTube hit and publishing phenomenon. The cause of his death was metastasised pancreatic cancer, said a spokesman for Carnegie Mellon University. He had survived for more than twice as long as medical experts had predicted last year. Pausch became a global hero thanks to his farewell lecture, which was videoed. In a routine that saw him performing press-ups in front of a giant screen showing a CT scan of his tumour-ridden liver, he was said to have succeeded in teaching Americans how to live.

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Thank you Randy Pausch for your inspiration, your passion for life and for encouraging us all to dream.

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I wandered into the Cathedrale Saint-Saveur in Aix en Provence the other day. It’s one of those awe-inspiring spaces. In fact, it’s a multiple of spaces inside, some vast, and some small and intimate. I’m always interested in the way plants are used by human beings (enthobotany is the correct term!) and so it was no surprise to see the prominence of lilies in the cathedral.

lilies in the church

Lilies are one of those plants which have special spiritual signifance over many centuries. If you ever wander around a gallery of French or Italian paintings for example, you’ll spot lily plants in many of the religious ones. The white lily is sometimes referred to as the “Madonna Lily” which further conveys the extent to which people have imbued this plant with spiritual significance.

The scent of lilies is very, very strong. I find it quite overpowering. In fact, it doesn’t take long before I feel rather queasy in a room full of lilies. It’s a pity for me because I think they are very beautiful but I can’t have them in my house. Fortunately, the cathedral is so large I could escape the scent of the lilies pretty easily.

What did surround me absolutely everywhere was the music. They were playing Thais’ Meditation. You know it? Here’s Sophie-Anne Mutter playing it. It’s one of those pieces of music that always, but always, makes me feel tearful. It moves me in my core.

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gooseberries

I found this lovely little tray of gooseberries in the local fruit and veg shop the other day. I haven’t tasted a gooseberry since I was a child. I don’t know why I haven’t eaten any for all those decades, but the first taste of one took me right back. We had gooseberries in the garden of the house where I was born and I looked forward to eating them every year. We had mainly green ones, which are more sour than these red ones, but we did have bushes of red ones too.

What takes you back? Which sensations bring back memories for you? Are there any tastes which do it? How about smells? Or sounds? I don’t think  our brains are all the same. There’s no doubt that some people are more sensitive to sounds than smells, or to tastes or whatever than others. Which sensations are most provocative for you?

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book poster

I saw this photo on a bus stop shelter the other day. It’s promoting books to read during the summer. The headline says “This summer. I read”

Is your reading seasonal? If it is, are there particular kinds of books you prefer to read in certain seasons? Specifically, are there books you consider as “summer books”?

Did you ever read “The Summer Book” by Tove Jansson? It’s the story of a child who goes to spend the summer holidays each year with her great grand-mother on a remote, barely inhabited Finnish island. It’s a lovely book for the summer.

Mostly, however, I’m just a reader. An addict really. Got a never decreasing pile of books beside my bed (the size of the pile doesn’t change, just its content! I can’t say I’m aware of selecting particular books for the summer though.

Oh, on that advert at the bus stop, one of the book titles really amused me – “La Joueuese d’echecs” – which translates as “The Joy of Checks”.  🙂

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