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A key theme of “heroes not zombies” is waking up and becoming aware. It’s too easy to drift through a day in a state of semi-consciousness, doomscrolling social media, following routines, swallowing the stories corporations and governments want you to swallow. The Romans used “bread and circuses” to control the population. Modern capitalism uses algorithms.

But there’s a way to break out of these mind-numbing loops….paying attention to what strikes you.

In homeopathy, there’s a teaching about looking out for the “Strange, rare and peculiar”, the symptoms a patient relates which strike you, which stand out, which seem particularly relevant, or particularly unusual. These symptoms might be the key to understanding the patient and finding the right remedy for them. It’s a practice which is the opposite of seeking what is “usual” or “typical”. The thing is, in diagnosis you need to grasp both – the typical symptoms can point to a pathology, but it’s the particular, the personal, and striking ones which point to the patient who has that pathology, which open the path to understanding what the patient is experiencing, how this disease emerged in their life and how it’s affecting them.

I’ve often written here about the power of wonder and awe. I experience wonder and awe when something strikes me. I’ll be wandering through the forest and suddenly see a flower I’ve never seen before, or I’ll hear a bird call I’ve never heard before (or, certainly, not around here). The important thing is to follow that noticing. When something strikes me, I’m drawn to it, I slow down, stop, and explore further. I allow myself to pass a few moments appreciating whatever it is.

We can do the same through the day with lines we read in books. I’m sure you have the experience of reading a novel, or a non-fiction book, and a particular phrase or sentence leaps it out at you. It strikes you. When that happens, why not note it down? Why not slow down, and consider it? I use a mix of methods in this situation. In some books I’ll underline the particular phrase. In others, I’ll get out my phone and take a photo of the passage, then save that photo to my Notes app. Or I’ll get out my notebook and copy it down. “And not or” is my motto. I’ll often do a combination of those things.

Sometimes we’ll be struck by coincidences, or by a feeling of deja vu. These moments can be gold. They can stop us in our tracks and inspire some wonder, some reflection. They are worth noting down too.

Other times I’m struck by a phrase I hear, maybe just a snippet of a conversation, or a remark in the cafe, or in a queue. Again, it’s worth noting these down, taking a moment to consider them, to enjoy then, to reflect.

When I visit a gallery I’ll move fairly quickly through a room, scanning the works of art, then, almost always, some particular painting strikes me, grabs my attention, and stops me. Those always become my favourite paintings.

Wherever you are, whatever you are doing, noticing what strikes you changes your day. It jolts you out of zombie mode, and gives you an opportunity to make the day your own, to make the day special.

Try it out….notice what strikes you today, and explore it.

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The first book I’ve read in 2025 is “Tomorrow, tomorrow and tomorrow” by Gabrielle Zevin. I didn’t know anything about this book when I bought it. I found it on the English language table in the fabulous Tranquebar bookshop in Copenhagen, and what convinced me to buy it was the blurb on the back, particularly the claim that it was a tale about “our need to connect; to be loved and to love”. However, as clearly displayed on the front cover, several million people had already bought a copy before I did, so, I guess I was a little late to the party. That doesn’t bother me, though.

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It was well written, engaged me from the very beginning, held my attention and pulled me in. Set in the US, focussed on three characters who create computer games and build a highly successful company, this isn’t a world that I know anything about. I’ve never been a computer game fan, and apart from some very, very early games, haven’t played any, but I didn’t feel out of my depth here at all. I think that’s mainly because there is no focus on detailed tech issues, but, rather on the ideas behind these games. It made me think about computer games more positively than I have done until now (although it hasn’t tempted me to go and play any!). I could see from the story how the experience of game worlds can actually help people to deal with reality, not simply, as I’d believed until now, just escape from it. There can be a power in distraction and escape, especially when someone is trying to recover from significant physical trauma. That’s something I haven’t really explored much even though I worked as a doctor for my whole career. I wonder what part such technology might play therapeutically in the future – and I don’t mean the current wave of data collection and emphasis on numbers and what can be measured. I mean more in the way of stimulating imagination, creativity and relationships.

There’s a particularly believable section of the book which involves a shooting. That felt spot on. It’s easy to see, in the increasingly polarised, judgemental world of America, in particular, that someone could become so enraged by something occurring in a computer game that they’d set off with guns to kill the creators.

The main characters are also very credible, and as the story follows them over many years, we get to experience intensely different phases of their relationships, from the times where all goes well between them, through the times where they drift apart, or even divided. And, as suggested, in that little blurb which caught my attention, it really is a story about the importance of loving and being loved.

A good start to the year.

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