My mum passed way peacefully this morning. She was 93 and spent this last year of her life in a care home with increasingly severe dementia. I am hugely grateful to the staff of the home who consistently presented cheerfulness, kindness and care. She was well looked after and, somewhat bizarrely, seemed perhaps more content in recent months than she’d been for some time.
It’s a tough disease, dementia, as the person you know disappears slowly from the world but I’m glad that, for her, the world she disappeared into was the one of her happy childhood.
My dad died back in 2015 and I know this is a natural and universal experience. You’ll also have lost family members or other loved ones, I’m sure.
Perhaps that connects us even more deeply…..this shared, yet always unique, experience.
From my heart to yours. Thank you for your continuing support and connection.
Heroes Not Zombies 
A very beautiful and appropriate photograph and posting to mark the end of your mum’s life. I have many memories of her from my teenage days as your neighbour and friend in Stirling. I’m sure the thoughts of lots of people who read and appreciate your blog will be with you today.
Thank you Martin
Sending much love your way. It is hard to navigate a parent’s death. I have been dealing with my mom’s. And dementia is even harder for a family. Know we are holding you and your family close.
Thank you so much, Donna, I really appreciate that
I’m so sorry to hear that Bob. Nothing prepares you even after a long life. When my mum passed on a friend described it as ‘the only death’ – that between mother and child. Maybe you could plant a lovely tree for her in your new garden, Jane
What a lovely idea Jane. Thank you
I’m very sorry for your loss Bob.
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
Sincere condolences,
Stephen
Thank you Stephen
My condolences. A good age but time to let go, as we all must.