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Okochi Sanso paths

Okochi Sanso paths

Okochi Sanso paths

Okochi Sanso paths

Okochi Sanso paths

We walk along numerous paths, streets, lanes every day. When we walk along them every day we can stop seeing them. Here are some paths I’d never walked along before which really grabbed my attention and reminded me to notice the paths I’m taking.

In the case of these garden paths in Kyoto, the paths themselves are beautiful. What about the regular paths you follow every day? What about the paths you follow through life? Where’s your present path leading, and what kind of path is it? Beautiful? Interesting? Enriching? (by the way, no paths go nowhere!)

Flowing stones

Okochi Sanso paths

When I looked at this stone, I thought I was looking at water…..then, I remembered some other stones I’d seen that seemed like that.
flowing rock
one stone amongst many

All stones which appear to flow….and I wondered about all those ways we have of subdividing Nature – solid, liquid, gas for example – and how appealing it is when we find in one form the echoes of another.

In the Higashi Honganji Temple in Kyoto, I saw this path – ok, not as natural as the rocks above, but beautiful and flowing all the same…..

flowing tiles

Watermarks

mariage freres

Look carefully at this cloth. What do you see?

I took this photograph in the Ginza branch of my favourite French tea room chain – Mariage Freres.

I love the subtlety of this design. It’s like a watermark. Distinct and clear, but only in a certain light. It would have been easy to overlook it. Yet it is also hard to miss.

I wonder what my watermark looks like?

I wonder what subtle but clear patterns distinguish me and what kind of light would reveal them?

When you listen to a favourite piece of music, do you have the same experience every time you listen? Have you ever had a wonderful meal in a restaurant, returned at a later date and had, maybe another wonderful meal……but were the two meals the same? Was the experience the same? If you look at a great painting, do you see exactly the same painting every time? I don’t mean is it the same object. I mean do you have the same perceptive, affective experience…….do you actually notice, regard, attend to the painting in an identical way, and does that produce an identical pattern of thoughts and feelings in you?

William James considers it this way in his Stream of Consciousness essay…

…and yet a close attention to the matter shows that there is no proof that an incoming current ever gives us just the same bodily sensation twice. What is got twice is the same OBJECT. We feel things differently accordingly as we are sleepy or awake, hungry or full, fresh or tired; differently at night and in the morning, differently in summer and winter; and above all, differently in childhood, manhood, and old age. For an identical sensation to recur it would have to occur the second time in an unmodified brain. But as this, strictly speaking, is a physiological impossibility, so is an unmodified feeling an impossibility….

The reality is, we never have the exact same experience twice. So maybe you should slow down a little, become more aware, more mindful of this present moment. You’ll never have another chance to have this particular experience again.

In “The Stream of Consciousness”, William James dismisses the ‘synthetic’ method of attempting to understand consciousness by considering small parts of it and trying to create the whole picture by assembling the various parts.

On every ground then the method of advancing from the simple to the compound exposes us to illusion. All pedants and abstractionists will naturally hate to abandon it. But a student who loves the fulness of human nature will prefer to follow the ‘analytic’ method, and to begin with the most concrete facts, those with which he has a daily acquaintance in his own inner life.

This strikes me as very sensible. The phenomenon of emergence was described much later, as were the findings of complexity science, but in fact, the more we have discovered about complex systems, such as living organisms, the more it becomes clear the that whole cannot be understood from a simple cobbling together of knowledge of the parts.

Simon Baron-Cohen wrote a fascinating piece in the Guardian considering the reality of cruelty in human affairs. He proposes the notion that there is a scale of empathy – a scale which reflects the amount of empathy a person feels towards others.

People said to be “evil” or cruel are simply at one extreme of the empathy spectrum. We can all be lined up along this spectrum of individual differences, based on how much empathy we have. At one end of this spectrum we find “zero degrees of empathy”.
Zero degrees of empathy means you have no awareness of how you come across to others, how to interact with others, or how to anticipate their feelings or reactions. It leaves you feeling mystified by why relationships don’t work out, and it creates a deep-seated self-centredness. Other people’s thoughts and feelings are just off your radar. It leaves you doomed to do your own thing, in your own little bubble, not just oblivious of other people’s feelings and thoughts but oblivious to the idea that there might even be other points of view. The consequence is that you believe 100% in the rightness of your own ideas and beliefs, and judge anyone who does not hold your beliefs as wrong, or stupid.

I think this is a useful concept – Ian McEwan, the writer, wrote after 9/11 that the terrorists were guilty of a “failure of imagination”. It’s true that imagination is the faculty we use to put ourselves into the shoes of others. If someone really does get into the mental state of “zero degrees of empathy”, then I can see that it is likely they would be capable of far greater acts of cruelty.

I like how he goes on to consider the value of empathy –

Empathy is like a universal solvent. Any problem immersed in empathy becomes soluble. It is effective as a way of anticipating and resolving interpersonal problems, whether this is a marital conflict, an international conflict, a problem at work, difficulties in a friendship, political deadlocks, a family dispute, or a problem with the neighbour. Unlike the arms industry that costs trillions of dollars to maintain, or the prison service and legal system that cost millions of dollars to keep oiled, empathy is free. And, unlike religion, empathy cannot, by definition, oppress anyone.

Empathy, is, I believe, crucially important in health care. Yes, I need good clinical diagnostic and therapeutic skills and knowledge, but empathy is what drives me to find the best for every patient. It also seems to make a lot of sense to me that empathy, as it involves, active, non-judgemental listening and a desire to understand and know another person, makes it more likely I will actually arrive at a “correct” diagnosis. Aren’t doctors more likely to miss a diagnosis if they have zero degrees of empathy? (By the way, I suspect empathy isn’t a constant. We probably all move up and down along the empathy scale, day by day, week by week. Makes it a good idea to reflect on where you are at the moment though, doesn’t it?)

paeony garden Ueno

This is May….the month of budding, of new beginnings, of the emergence of potential…..

OK, I admit, I’ve no idea…..what’s an eyelash salon??!!

eyelash salon

sleeping

If you fall asleep in public places, probably just as well have your own guard dog I suppose….

sleeping in tokyo

Ups and downs

The path through life isn’t a straight one, or a level one. It’s full of ups and downs. No two days are the same.
So when you have a day of climbing, enjoy the climb

up

and when you have a day of descent, take it easy, and descend carefully

down

you can be pretty sure, it’ll be different tomorrow……(as Heraclitus almost said, we don’t walk the exact same path twice….)